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September 9, 2025 at 7:50 am #5351
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KeymasterLooking for recommendations for a ccw for the wife. She recently decided she would like to start carrying. She is very much a gun newbie. She has been shooting with me a few times for fun but has never done any real training. I will for sure going to get her signed up for a class. Any suggestions for a good pistol would be greatly appreciated.
Looking for:
-Something of the subcompact variety
-Something in 9mm or .380. She has pretty small hands so a single stack mag would be best
-Something with an external safety, so no Glocks pleaseDecember 27, 2025 at 1:00 pm #143097admin
KeymasterMy wife was also a newbie and we settled on the ruger lc9.
December 27, 2025 at 1:01 pm #143098admin
KeymasterTromba said: ↑
Looking for recommendations for a ccw for the wife. She recently decided she would like to start carrying. She is very much a gun newbie. She has been shooting with me a few times for fun but has never done any real training. I will for sure going to get her signed up for a class. Any suggestions for a good pistol would be greatly appreciated.Looking for:
-Something of the subcompact variety
-Something in 9mm or .380. She has pretty small hands so a single stack mag would be best
-Something with an external safety, so no Glocks please
The pistol that feels best to her. If she doesnt like it she will not shoot it or carry it. Everyone here can suggest something but unless she gets her hands on it it is all moot. I thought the same thing you did with my fiance and her carrying a small gun in 9mm or .380. She is 5’0″ and has small hands as well and do you know what she carries? A 4″ 1911 in .45 because thats what feels best to her and what she shoots best. Let your wife do the shopping and do not give her any input just let her look at EVERYTHING and you may leave surprised.I say all of this because I work at a gun shop and I see this every single day and deal with husbands who think think they know what is best.
BTW a Glock does have an external safety.
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December 27, 2025 at 1:01 pm #143099admin
KeymasterTromba said: ↑
Looking for recommendations for a ccw for the wife. She recently decided she would like to start carrying. She is very much a gun newbie. She has been shooting with me a few times for fun but has never done any real training. I will for sure going to get her signed up for a class. Any suggestions for a good pistol would be greatly appreciated.Looking for:
-Something of the subcompact variety
-Something in 9mm or .380. She has pretty small hands so a single stack mag would be best
-Something with an external safety, so no Glocks please
The pistol that feels best to her. If she doesnt like it she will not shoot it or carry it. Everyone here can suggest something but unless she gets her hands on it it is all moot. I thought the same thing you did with my fiance and her carrying a small gun in 9mm or .380. She is 5’0″ and has small hands as well and do you know what she carries? A 4″ 1911 in .45 because thats what feels best to her and what she shoots best. Let your wife do the shopping and do not give her any input just let her look at EVERYTHING and you may leave surprised.I say all of this because I work at a gun shop and I see this every single day and deal with husbands who think think they know what is best.
BTW a Glock does have an external safety.
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December 27, 2025 at 1:01 pm #143100admin
KeymasterIl Duce said: ↑
The pistol that feels best to her. If she doesnt like it she will not shoot it or carry it. Everyone here can suggest something but unless she gets her hands on it it is all moot. I thought the same thing you did with my fiance and her carrying a small gun in 9mm or .380. She is 5’0″ and has small hands as well and do you know what she carries? A 4″ 1911 in .45 because thats what feels best to her and what she shoots best. Let your wife do the shopping and do not give her any input just let her look at EVERYTHING and you may leave surprised.I say all of this because I work at a gun shop and I see this every single day and deal with husbands who think think they know what is best.
BTW a Glock does have an external safety.
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For sure I will have her try out different options and pick one that feels the best. I am just looking for suggestions.December 27, 2025 at 1:01 pm #143101admin
KeymasterI strongly suggest againt the thumb safety though for edc
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December 27, 2025 at 1:02 pm #143102admin
Keymastersecond the motion to let her decide… I’ve worked with some very frail, older ladies, and many have a hard time of removing a chambered round in an autoloader… the Beretta 86 with tip up barrel was a solution for many of them
December 27, 2025 at 1:02 pm #143103admin
KeymasterPretty much everything Il Duce said including the comment about the safety. Safety on a CCW is a pretty controversial topic and I won’t go into all of the arguments for or against. Let’s just say that I want every 10th of a second advantage I can gain.
I’m not a fan of 380 at all, so I won’t comment.
For a 9mm, I’d take a close look at the Shield or LC9S.
December 27, 2025 at 1:02 pm #143104admin
Keymasterwhy an auto? 442 with some CT’s on it is hard to beat……………
December 27, 2025 at 1:02 pm #143105admin
KeymasterMy wife (5′ 2″) prefers a revolver to autos, simpler to verify loaded/unloaded and not buttons to push or levers to move.
She carries this one:
Ruger LCR
December 27, 2025 at 1:03 pm #143106admin
KeymasterIf she likes what you carry, it is nice to have interchangeable mags etc. with your partner. Wife and I carry M&P Shield .40’s.
December 27, 2025 at 1:03 pm #143107admin
KeymasterWell, I like the Kel Tec P3AT, its a good reliable, light CCW. However, most of these wont have a safety because the trigger pull is heavy. You have to pull the trigger like you mean it, for it to discharge.
Ruger LCP is good, as well as Ruger LC9.
Taurus TCP is a good budget shooter.I think revolvers are a good option too…
Any S&W J-Frame is great.
Ruger LCR is good, .22 mag is no joke. Also comes in .38 and I even seen a 9mm version.Revolvers are great but I always like to have an extra mag on me. Just a rule I have for myself.
December 27, 2025 at 1:04 pm #143108admin
KeymasterCheck out the Walther PK380 if you can find one. Great ergonomics, an extremely light slide spring, and the felt recoil is very mild.
Although the .380 is a bare minimum for self defense I’m getting one for a female friend of mine for her birthday cause everything else about the gun, to her, is great.December 27, 2025 at 1:04 pm #143109admin
KeymasterTake her to a gun store and let her look at and handle a number of different guns. Go to a range that rents guns if you have one near you so she can try them out herself. Also, have her look at TheCorneredCat web site. Written by a woman firearms instructor.
December 27, 2025 at 1:04 pm #143110admin
KeymasterAnother good option is Faliaphotography on Youtube
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